Thursday, May 1, 2008

Celebrate Today

Yesterday Ken started pulling boxes from the attic to clear a path for the technician scheduled to install our new internet service tomorrow. It was like Christmas Day! So many things that I don’t have room for but I don’t want to part with tucked away for safe keeping, packed in boxes and bubble wrap. Some of them are family heirlooms that I tell myself I’ll use once we move to a bigger place. Special dishes and glasses, china and crystal beautiful and sparkling just waiting for the day when they are put in the spotlight walking the red carpet of our dining table and admired for their beauty.

Among the treasures, a baby blanket my Mom made for me before she died. I was moving to the UK and she didn’t know if she would see me again but she wanted my babies to have a blanket handmade by his or her grandma. I sat and admired the intricate stitches of the crochet work. So delicate and beautiful. My mother was exceptionally gifted at making afghans, this one was perhaps her finest work of art. Most of you know the circumstances around my Mom’s untimely death and that I'm 41 and childless so needless to say, it was an emotional find. It won't be going back in the attic, I've found a special drawer for it.

So often we get so caught up in the day to day happenings we forget that each day is special. Every day is special and worth celebrating. We can make each day special by making a difference in someone else’s life. Smile at the elderly person you see at the grocery store. They might be all alone in this world and your smile might be the only human connection they find that day. Tell your loved ones that you love them. Make the phone call now, you might not have tomorrow. Don’t hold on to anger and live each moment of life to its fullest. Tonight dine on fine china and drink from crystal.

21 comments:

  1. It's so true. Every day is special, and should be lived to the fullest! I forgot to tell you that some woman applauded me and my running buddy the other day. It made me feel great! I smile at everyone I pass while out there. Even covered in sweat!

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  2. It's so true. Every day is special, and should be lived to the fullest! I forgot to tell you that some woman applauded me and my running buddy the other day. It made me feel great! I smile at everyone I pass while out there. Even covered in sweat!

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  3. You are so right. I was just talking to the guy I am dating about this same thing because Mother's Day is approaching. He was kind of groaning mildly about doing something with her mainly because his brother wasn't having any part of it. I relayed the story of my step grandmother, who treated me as if I was her own. Life kept me busy so I didn't go see her as often as I should. She lived in Tampa. My step sister, her real granddaughter didn't go see her in years. She died a couple of years ago. In her bible was a news article of some sort and I wish I could remember the exact words but it was along the lines of loving them while they are here, not waiting until after they are gone.

    It's so important to live each day to its fullest but we take advantage of it every day.

    BTW, I used to live off Moog. I am now off 54.

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  4. amen to that! every day IS special and worth celebrating... just this morning, i let this guy on the subway before me because he was on crutches... i got the most evil stares from other people (it was during rush hour) but he said thank-you and that made my day... some people are just so R U D E! :-p

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  5. That's beautiful. I'm approaching 9years since I lost my dad and I can promise you that since then I try to never take my family and friends for granted because one day they won't be there.

    Thank you.

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  6. You're absolutely right. Its amazing what a simple smile can do.

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  7. Thanks for the gentle reminder. And while you've got those dishes on your mind, eat a meal on them before you put them up!

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  8. Awwww - that made me cry. Why do we get so caught up in stuff that isn't really important anyway?? Thanks for reminding me to take time to enjoy everyday and all the blessings that I've been given. The story about your mom really touched me. I'm sure that your mom is looking down on you and smiling for all the wonderful things that you are doing. Thanks for being so amazing and such an encouragement.

    (((HUGS)))

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  9. So true...so true...I had watery eyes while I read but got the message loud and clear. I agree with you 100%...Enjoy that very ,very special blanket.

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  10. (((Diana)))

    My parents have found so many things that belonged to my brother, that once meant nothing. Now they mean everything. I'm so glad you found the afghan and now you have a special place for it.

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  11. Powerful message and so true. I will never stop missing my own mother...one of the most inspiring people I will ever know. You are in my thoughts!

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  12. One of the saddest days we've ever spent was going thru my gran's stuff after she died at
    99. The thick blue bathrobe, the nightgowns, the socks - all these things she was saving "for good" or for when she went to the hospital. My mom now uses everything we give her, immediately. I'm of the same mind. I read a comment once, "What are you saving the good china FOR?" I miss my grans and my dad, and I keep a small reminder of them where I can see it. Yeah, it makes my house a little crowded. Oh, well.

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  13. absolutely on the money.. the one thing I never do is take for granted the time I have with Steve.. and now the time I have with my mom.. she is having open heart surgery for the second time in her life .. on July 15th.. Today is not only Steves 56 birthday but 6 years ago today he was diagnosed with prostate cancer on his 50th birthday .. can you believe that? so here we are 6 years latter married.. he is for the most part healthy.. Today on his special day and all days I give thanks for our time together... and he knows that.. same with my mom... and you can bet .. I always smile at strangers.. and I like you and so many others out there know that each and ever day is special.. Spread the love.. !!

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  14. Thank you for this post - you've reminded all of us how very important every day is. Yesterday I was commenting to a co-worker that it was almost the anniversary of my mom's death. I used to whine every all the time when she would phone two or three times a week just to chat (she lived 400 miles away) and her opening line was always "so what are you cooking for dinner tonight?". She aways called just before dinner when I was up to my eyeballs getting stuff ready. Now I would give anything just to hear her ask what's for dinner ... sigh.

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  15. I needed this today. Life is passing us by, and we can't seem to figure out how to slow down and enjoy it.

    (I'd love to see a picture of the afghan, if you get a chance.)

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  16. thanks for the reminder.
    I didnt need it so much yesterday (so I gues its ok I rolled later to the soiree ;)) but this morning?
    I totally do.

    M.

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  17. Perfectly said, Diana. (as always!)

    I am so sorry about your mom...I didn't know the details. I can only imagine how your anniversary brings up a bag of raw emotions. Consider yourself hugged today!

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  18. Here, here. Lovely post, Diana!

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  19. Lovely post! Thank you for reminding me that my smile can make a difference for someone else.

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  20. wow, thank you for that very important reminder. It is definitely needed today as I am stressing about laundry and clean floors. In reality, who really cares if my floors are spotless? certainly not my family! thanks again and I am so sorry about your mom.

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