Monday, November 2, 2009

lately I

Lately I've been caught up in life
Lately I've been fighting an illness
Lately I haven't been blogging too much
Lately I haven't been focused on my health
Lately I haven't exercised
Lately I've had too many reasons why...

I can't even guarantee these words will make sense to any of you but here it goes.

So here it is, the last two months of the year and I look back at this past year (and the year before) and I see my weight is pretty much where its been for the past two years. One thing leads to another and here we are and here I am wishing things were different but they aren't. Yes thats my head talking but lately my body has been talking. Correction, my body has been screaming!

My body has said its had enough of my not taking care of it and its treated me to three months of itching hives that won't go away. Of course my doctor has graciously treated me to two rounds of steroids and told me that they don't have to cause weight gain, they only cause weight gain when you eat too much. Ok...thats not really fair to my doctor. He wanted me to take the steroids back in August when the problem first started. Had I taken them then, I might not be this bad today. I waited until it was unbearable. I waited until I reached the breaking point. And here I am.

Do you have any idea what its like to itch for three months? One area clears up only to have another flare up. You try every over the counter medication, you try what your doctor offers, you try home remedies, you become best friends with the woman at the health food store. Itching leads to not sleeping, not sleeping leads to physical and mental exhaustion. So then you take a pill to help the itch that also helps you sleep and you wake yourself up bloody from scratching in your sleep. The doctor gives you an antibiotic to clear up the infected itchy spots and what do you know...I had an allergic reaction to the antibiotic. And then somewhere in there the depression sets in.

I haven't been blogging because I've been too busy itching...or trying not to itch. While I was itching I was comforting myself with comfort food, is it any wonder I gained 20 pounds? Was it the steroids...really? Or was it me stuffing my mouth with food to comfort myself? And wait just a minute, has that food really caused comfort or contributed to the problem? Sweating and exposure to humidity makes it worse, much worse so exercise has stopped. I've walked the dogs for at least a mile a day, almost every day for the past three years. So the one thing I was doing right for my immune system, daily exercise, has stopped. Oh sure I could turn the air conditioner down to 60 and workout, then quickly jump in the shower...and I have but my electricity bill is screaming too and that leads us back to the cause of stress. The cause of stress has been fixed, its been remedied and its actually worked out for the better but its not an instant switch for my body. My body is still rebelling.

Lessons learned. Oh yes I've learned several lessons. If I wait until my body is at that breaking point of unbearable before I do anything, its going to make things a whole lot worse. There are some things a pill can't fix. There are some things you have to fix from the inside out. I stopped and compared it to my weight. I can't let myself get to the point of no return. Comfort food isn't comforting to my body and its doing me no favors.

Hives are a response to many things: stress, food allergies, immune system deficiencies. So basically I had lots and lots of stress and I started eating foods I had previously eliminated from my diet and then I cry and wonder why I'm itching so much? My body is fighting back. My body is saying "fine, if you won't take care of me I'll make you itch until you pay attention" I'LL PAY ATTENTION!! But did it have to pick the year with the deadly H1N1 to rebel and weaken my defenses?I know, I know, you're in charge, no back talk.

I'm listening body! I'm finally listening. I'm feeding you good healthy foods and I'm starting right now, right at this minute, today. Oh I can't promise this resolve will last a minute past the first Thanksgiving temptation passes my nose and even if it does I have the whole December holiday season to make it through, but I'm going to make the best choices at each and every meal. I'm going to do my best and make the better decisions and maybe just maybe you'll let these ugly scars on my leg heal? If I fail, just make me itch and I'll get the message and get back on track again. Deal?

15 comments:

  1. It's always tough to listen to our bodies isn't it? It's so frusterating! These last two months of the year are the most difficult! I hope you're feeling better soon!
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  2. I've suffered through allergic itching so severe it caused trips to the ER and steroids, so I CAN relate. I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. Try to remember, the next time Temptation calls, that it is NOT GOING TO HELP. It's only going to add to your woes. Many soft hugs to you.
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  3. I'm hoping that the itching goes away. Isn't it amazing what our bodies actually try to tell us....and isn't it equally amazing at how much we ignore these cries for help????
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  4. Girll, I feel your itch. Mine is due to chronic life-long allergies/eczema and got worse with my autoimmune condition and hypothyroidism. It's weird if I don't scratch, I'm so used to it. My husband will say, "Honey, you have red tracks down your arms," and I know I have to go mo isturize or something. Usually gets worse when I eat sensitive foods, but sometimes, I'm tempted.

    I have my routine: Shower in not-hot water. Use non-scented shower gels when the itching acts up. Use non-scented Lubriderm Sensitive Lotion or Eucerin Calming Creme from forehead to soles of feet. Stay moisturized. Take Zyrtec and Singulair. Quercetin and C.

    I find if I moisturize a lot with Lubriderm or Eucerin within seconds of getting out of a cool shower, it helps immensely.

    And yeah, sweat is a killer. I'll scratch my skin right off if I let sweat sit or in the morning if I've had night sweats. Sucks.

    I hope you feel a lot better real soon. Focus on good food and avoiding scents/irritants on your skin.

    The Princess
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  5. I can relate to being driven crazy by the itchies, though in this case it's not my itching.

    My poor dog is being hit with allergies again. Which means that she's scratched all of her lovely warm insulating fur off of her body, just in time for the freezing temperatures. The best thing the doctor can suggest is steroids.

    It's a @#$! challenge trying to ease her misery without breaking the bank. Good luck!
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  6. I can only imagine how crazy you must be going! I have had hives, and do get them every now and them but never for more than a day. Poor you!!

    Take one day at a time and try to focus on making each day you wake up a healthy one. That's my advice. I struggle your struggles. It's not easy, but every little step in the right direction helps.

    Wishing you well soon =)
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  7. I can feel your pain (itch) I have a skin disease/condition that causes MAJOR itching. I did let it get to me and have even questioned the whole weight loss campaign thinking to myself "I will still have ugly legs" but I worked through it and the dietary changes have helped it clear up.
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  8. I'm sorry you haven't found relief yet!

    I've had both eczema (eyes/lids/ears/jaw) and stress-induced hives -- not fun. I'm currently wrestling with listening to my body and going to the doctor, and "waiting a little longer" to see if the issue resolves itself (even though it hasn't yet). *shakes head* Why do we do this to ourselves?
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  9. I have struggled with hives too. I hope you feel better soon.
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  10. I'm sorry you've been having to deal with this. Deal with those better decisions (and temptations) one day at a time.
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  11. I share your frustrations completely! Sending you hugs and prayers. Sounds like you are on the right track to better health.
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  12. I can relate to this post. I used to suffer from hives and eventually found out (through a process of elimination) that it was caused by sulfur dioxide, one of the most common food additives out there. Gluten also plays a role for me.

    Thinking of you!
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  13. I've been there with the itching, so I completely understand what you're going through!
    A lot of times itching is caused by an allergic reaction. I hope you can find out what it is that's causing the itching so you don't have to be on steroids for long.
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  14. I can definitely relate to those "Lately I..." saying at the beginning of this post.

    I am so sorry to hear about your allergic reaction; that has to be awful.

    On a happy note, I left a little surprise for you on my blog.
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  15. Oh that's rough! I hear you about not listening to your body! Looking forward to tomorrow!
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